if this is a player that's meant to be put on other sites they will provide you with a code. just copy and past that code anywhere you want. in a bulletin, blog, or on your profile.
sites like this allow you to put your playlist on many sites actually.
http://www.projectplaylist.com
you can check out my page to see what i'm talking about
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=12507764